How to Talk Dirty: In Person or over the Phone

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It can take a little more time to get a woman’s water boiling, so to speak, whereas a guy’s can go from Lake Placid to full-on tsunami in a matter of seconds. Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous at the thought of trying it, because they’ve never been taught the basic guidelines. Goodreads has an “Erotica for Men” reading list with more than 100 books. Especially for those that enjoy consensually degrading verbal play, aftercare is an essential piece of sex to keep the consent, communication, and boundaries in line for all.

Or Go Solo to Start

If he responds positively in the bedroom, send him a dirty message the next day, or tell him something kinky over coffee in the morning. Then start to make this more or a habit so that you are flirting with him all day every day. After a while, you can whisper something obscene in his ear while you’re dining at a fine restaurant or if you really want to get dirty, tell him to meet you in the bathroom.

• Orgasms that rock his world and yours are just an arm’s length away when you use these nasty, naughty phrases to entice his visual and emotional appetite.
• She adds that it’s important to cultivate a sense of lightheartedness, not judgment; chances are, neither of you is interested in being put under a microscope and overanalyzed while turning each other on.
• If your girlfriend or wife tells you that she likes the idea of talking dirty, that’s great news!
• It helps you develop more sexual self-confidence.
• Remember, there’s no single “right” way to turn up the heat.

How To Dirty Talk Like A Pro

You have no idea what you’ve gotten yourself into. Why can’t I have you like this all the time, you’re my new addiction. I’m ecstatic just thinking about your cock every day. I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot.

Consider him the best friend, confidante or muse in your life. Click here for more information on my 7 Day Course and truly build your confidence in making women light up. Dirty talk works best in the throes of passion when used in conjunction with other techniques to excite. Talk very low and quiet directly into her ear, so she can feel the brief expulsion of a whisper with every word you say.

Vocalizing your pleasure guides the action, and delivers fantasies straight from your dreams. Dirty talk isn’t just delivering a monologue so heinous it would make a sailor jealous; it’s about tapping into your imagination to build-up sexual tension. Whether you’re engaging in verbal foreplay before a hookup or uttering passionate prose to your one-night-turned-Mr. Right, fervent communication can be a massive turn-on for everyone. As you can see, there are so many different situations where you can use dirty talk to amp up the sexual tension and turn your man on.